From Eye Contact To A Relationship...
“10 Step Building Block Tutorial To Master Women And Your Dating Life”
What if you could...
... make and hold eye contact with a strange woman you find attractive, walk up, and start a conversation -- all without flinching, keeping the connection the entire time.
Within a few minutes, you leave with her name and phone number.
And what if you could get yourself to do this in spite of any fears or doubts you may experience -- and still succeed.
I'm talking about every day situations... like waiting at the bus stop, filling up at a gas station, or standing in line at the grocery store.
And just what if you were to do this a few times a week. Every seven days, you'd have given yourself several options. And every week, you'd be calling each woman to arrange to meet.
Imagine the many ways your dating life would begin to transform by just learning how to get a phone number, and doing it only 3 times a week.
That would be 12 numbers a month, and 144 a year -- which would equal at least 48 dates with different women... if not more.
Now, compare that to where you are now. You do the math.
And this would only be the very beginning...
If you're sick to your stomach of failing with women or your dating life is non-existent and you're serious about doing whatever it takes to master the new skills I'll introduce over the next 15 minutes, this could be the most important step-by-step primer tutorial you'll ever read.
If you want to learn how to...
choose who you date and how far each relationship goes,
date numerous women at the same time,
lead each relationship according to your own terms...
I have the answers and solutions you need.
And it doesn't matter what you look like, how much you make, or if you're currently very shy. Trust me. I'm a good looking guy who went years without getting what I wanted from women and dating... until I learned the skills I'm about to talk to you about.
You can learn these skills, which focus on building your character and personality.
My name's Jay Julio. And what I have to teach are grounded principles that work. For most, they will take time and practice to apply effectively. But I'll show you how to break them up into manageable steps.
What Are The Steps To Understanding The
Dating Game?
Few guys actually have a game plan when it comes to their dating life. It's as if they expect to meet the right woman and for things to magically fall into place.
Of course, they don't. They end up putting a lot of effort and time into a woman, and when all is said and done, they don't even get her.
And if they do get her, she wears the pants in the relationship. And he feels powerless, always waiting on her for the decisions.
These are the guys who ultimately fail with women.
Why?
They don't understand the rules.
The dating world really is a game. There are certain unspoken rules that men and women play by. The problem is, most women -- especially attractive women understand these rules -- while most men DON'T.
Guys who are successful at the dating game understand what these rules are and how to play by them... and they also understand how women play.
That's the only difference between guys who are good with women and guys who aren't.
If you want to learn how to become successful with women for a lifetime and you want to understand the dating game, you need a game plan.
And that's what I'm about to show you below...
I've broken this game plan into 4 stages consisting of 10 steps. Each step takes you closer to getting the kinds of women and relationships you want.
Here are the fundamental steps...
Steps To Master Each
Stage Of The Dating Game
Stage 1: From initial eye contact to the first date
STEP 1 -- Learn how to meet women
STEP 2 -- Learn how to get phone numbers
STEP 3 -- Learn how to call and get the first date
Stage 2: From the first date to the bedroom
STEP 4 -- Learn how to create attraction on the first date
STEP 5 -- Learn how to generate sexual tension
STEP 6 -- Learn how to get her to seduce you
Stage 3: From the bedroom to a short-term fling
STEP 7 -- Learn how to establish a personal connection
STEP 8 -- Learn how to use adventure to keep her interested
STEP 9 -- Learn how to determine her "compatibility level"
Stage 4: From a fling to a long-term relationship
STEP 10 -- Learn how to get a healthy relationship
The 10 Steps Are Like
Stacking Building Blocks
Imagine that you have 10 building blocks. Can you stack the 10th one on top of the other 9 if you haven't even stacked them yet?
Sound like a stupid question? After all, there's nothing to stack the 10th one on top of -- it would become the bottom one.
But that's exactly what most guys try to do. A committed relationship is that 10th block -- the last one. And if you go into an interaction or relationship with this one in mind from the start, there's no foundation.
And what happens? What do women say?
"I think this relationship is moving too fast."
Instead, place your focus on each stage, one step at a time... until you finally arrive at the 10th one.
But to do this, you first have to master each step individually.
Each step involves learning a particular skill. As you learn the skill for each step, you move up to the next one. And when you reach the last one, having mastered the previous ones, you will have complete control over your dating life because you'll have reached a deep understanding of the overall process.
And that's about the time when you start attracting women everywhere you go -- and you won't really be able to help it.
Things like stopping at a coffeeshop or grocery store and casually chatting with the server or clerk as your order goes through, thinking nothing of it, only to realize, the next time you stop in, that you left quite an impression.
When you learn these skills, and after they've become second nature, you apply them without even thinking about them. They become just a part of your character and personality.
Then it really becomes difficult not to attract women.
And if you eventually want a relationship where you have the power, you have to establish it according to these steps, following a specific formula based on principles. If you don't apply the principles from the first step to the last, you're headed for trouble.
What kind of trouble?
Not having control by giving it to a woman.
Start with learning the skills.
Success Involves
Learning New Skills
For any guy who's had little to no success with women so far, the 10 steps encompass the progression of the dating game. We'll look at each one individually shortly. And really, no matter what other dating coaches may claim, you have to take it one step at a time.
Do you begin running before you've learned to walk?
I won't promise you that you can read my material and instantly walk away a chick-magnet. What I can promise you is that I provide all the information you'll ever need to become a chick-magnet.
But it's entirely up to you to use it and learn.
You have to take the instructions I offer, apply them, and make them work for you as an individual. You have to have or develop persistence and determination and the resolve to make mistakes.
That's crucial. It's key.
My program is for men who know what they want and who not only recognize but are willing to invest the time in themselves to learn these skills.
What I do know is that if you're already an out-going person, but have had little success getting the results you want from your dating life, chances are, you will be able to pick-up what I teach and start applying it very quickly.
But if you're more of a reserved guy, as I was, I'll be honest with you, it will take time. The great thing is that I'm there to give you all the one-to-one suggestions you need in the Get Feedback! Forums.
There are no quick solutions. The real solutions come in small steps as you work your way through learning and mastering each stage of the dating game.
So how do you work towards mastering these stages?
Let's move on to the good stuff...
- Stage 1 -
From Initial Eye Contact
To The First Date
If you think about it, you can't go out with a woman if you don't get her phone number. Yet you can't get her phone number if you don't approach her. And you'll likely have trouble approaching her if you don't have the confidence or skill.
By simply educating yourself on every step of my game plan, you will get an internal sense of confidence. It comes from having the awareness and orientation of the full dating process.
Essentially, you become aware of not only where you are, but what direction you want to move in. You know what's going to happen before it even does.
All you have to do is remove the barriers by learning the skill behind each step.
Step 1:
How To Confidently Meet Women
And Start Simple Conversations
How do you respond whenever you see a very attractive woman? You know you want to meet her, but do you find yourself reluctant to approach her?
Why? What's the reason behind that reluctance?
Do you catch yourself thinking about what you'd say? In your mind, you keep searching for something original or the perfect pickup line. Maybe you come up with idea after idea... but they just don't seem "good enough".
Or what if you walk up and suddenly find you have nothing to say when you get there? What if you fail? Make a fool of yourself? Clam up?
Get rejected?
Or what if she ignores you -- or insults you when you approach her?
How do you overcome these fears and doubts?
The best way to get rid of them is to learn various methods on how to become a great conversationalist. When you set out to improve your conversation skills, your mind becomes focused on learning how to approach strange women in a way that they welcome and are receptive to you talking to them.
And how do you do this?
First, you have to communicate that you're safe through your body language and the way in which you start conversations. Then you have to know how to listen and direct conversations to "hot topics" that mean a lot to her.
My Get Quality Women! Dating Program teaches you...
How to radiate a strong masculine presence and read the body signals that tell you when she's interested and receptive before you approach.
4 techniques to come up with your own conversation starters suited to your unique "meeting women" situations.
How to turn small talk from meaningless conversation onto subjects that are close to her heart.
How to redirect any negative conversation topics she brings up back to feel-good, positive subjects that leave her in a happy state of mind.
2 powerful methods of redirecting the conversation away from revealing information about you that you don't want to give her just yet.
I give you all the confidence building concepts and conversational tools you need to walk up to, meet, and talk to the women you find attractive.
Step 2:
How To Effortlessly Get Women’s
Phone Numbers Or Email Addresses
When you've been talking to a woman you just met for a few minutes, does the thought of asking for her phone number make you a little edgy or nervous?
Do you find that you become anxious? What do you do if she refuses?
After all, what if she is just humoring you to be nice or to keep things comfortable until she gets a chance to leave? And she's not really interested in interacting with you at all?
So?
What if there was a way to setup the interaction so you could find out whether she wanted to give you her number before you asked? This wouldn't even give her the chance to refuse you?
Get Quality Women! teaches you...
How to figure out whether she will give you her number before you even ask for it.
How to know when she's hesitating, and how to overcome her hidden objections to get the number.
Exactly how to 'structure' the interaction, including how to end the conversation and leave smoothly after you get the number.
I give you the exact instructions on how to get her number, without having to really "ask" for it directly.
Step 3:
How To Call Women And Get
The First Date In Under 3 Minutes
What thoughts run through your mind after you've gotten a woman's phone number and you're thinking about giving her a call? Does your voice clamp up? Do you sit with the phone in your hand, planning what you're going to say... hesitating?
Part of the problem is not knowing what to say. The other part of the problem is lacking confidence, which is usually due to not knowing what to say.
Just like all the other steps, this takes practice. But, depending on where you are in life -- if you're younger -- why not consider taking a job at a call center for a few months?
The best way to get over any fear is to just do it, make mistakes, and learn from them. Why not get experience calling strangers and talking to them on the phone?
Soon enough, the hesitation leaves, and you begin calling without fear.
Of course, knowing what to say can be incredibly helpful. Get Quality Women! teaches you...
The 4 crucial pieces of information you must give to a woman to powerfully setup the date, and how to communicate them confidently.
A simple step-by-step phone conversation 'structure' to set the date up in under 3 minutes.
You'll also learn how to overcome the main objections women tend to use when you call them...
What to say and do when she doesn't like your date idea.
How to handle yourself smoothly when she says that she's not available or that she's busy.
What the best course of action is when she tries to start playing 'phone tag' games with you.
How to respond when someone else picks up the phone and she's not available, and why it's better to treat the situation this way.
And much more.
I show you exactly how to call and setup the date in a matter of minutes -- with a simple technique to make sure she never stands you up, along with the major phone objections women tend to use and how to deal with each one.
- Stage 2 -
From The First Date
To The Bedroom
Even after you get a woman's phone number and you've arranged to meet for a first date, if you don't know how to create attraction -- especially during that first date -- and generate sexual tension, you'll end up as nothing more than a friend.
After all, what's the difference between a friend and a lover? Friends don't sleep together. Lovers do.
Obvious, right?
But what makes women want to sleep with you? That's the question, isn't it?
The simple answer is attraction. When you know how to create attraction in a woman, you're half way home. The other half is knowing what to do with that attraction once it's been created.
Here's how the process works...
Step 4:
How To Create Attraction In
Under 20 Minutes Of The First Date
Have you ever gone out on a first date with a woman, but that was the only one you got? Or how about this... ever gone out with a woman several times but nothing "romantic" ever came up, so you finally brought it up with her directly.
And how did she reply? What did she say?
"I think we should just be friends."
Or...
"You're such a good friend, and I don't want to ruin our friendship."
If a woman has ever said either of these to you, she was not feeling an attraction towards you. That may be bad news -- but here's the great news...
... This is an easy problem to solve. All you have to do is get educated on what attraction is and how to change yourself in ways that create it in women.
So just what is attraction?
Attraction is the "sex emotion". It's the feeling that makes us want sex. Us guys are pretty simple creatures.
What causes us men to feel attraction?
We see a woman with healthy hair, a good complexion, hour glass figure, and great legs -- and immediately, we're feeling attraction towards her.
Yeah, we all know this. But what's the point?
For women, attraction is very, very different. What causes them to feel attraction towards a man is not so much the way he looks. It's in how he makes her feel.
This can be done through your personality alone. Sure, looks help. But they're not necessary. All you really need is certain personality traits -- or more accurate... your attitude and outlook on yourself, women, and on life.
Get Quality Women! teaches you how to adopt these attitudes that create attraction in women. You'll learn...
What the 2 core differences are between friends and lovers, and how to change yourself so women start viewing you as a lover immediately.
How to use and create your own sexual innuendos and communicate with women using sexual metaphors.
The single most important "attraction rule" and the 3 reasons why it triggers a carnal attraction in women.
You'll also learn how to create the 2 most compelling emotions you can give women...
How to get her curiosity running wild by making her intrigued with who you are using a simple conversational method.
How to make her anticipate spending more time with you by applying an easy suspense strategy.
I show you how to create attraction in a short 20 minute date that sets the stage for sexual tension and experiences to come during the following few dates.
Step 5:
How To Generate Intense Sexual
Tension During Follow-Up Dates
When you do go out on dates with women, what do you do? Or when you think about where you'd like to take a woman, what do you consider a good idea? And why do you make the decisions that you do?
Or do you ask the woman where she would like to go?
Most guys generally take women out to dinner, and then to a movie. It's the only idea they have for dating. In fact, it's been fed to them their whole lives.
But if you want to connect with a woman, this is probably one of the worst possible decisions a guy can make.
Why?
The aim of the first month of dating is to sleep together. With my approach, that happens within 4 dates. And if you're not sleeping with a woman after 4 dates, you're heading for trouble.
If a guy doesn't sleep with a woman he's dating within a month of meeting her, she owns him! And the whole relationship has been established poorly.
So how do you avoid this? How do you setup this part of the relationship?
After you've successfully attracted her, you have to build on that attraction by generating sexual tension. What I mean by sexual tension is taking that attraction out of her mind and turning it into a physical interaction between the two of you.
Dinner and movies generally get in the way of this. Instead, you'll learn how to use that same time to actually have her initiating the touching.
Then, instead of you trying to "convince" her to sleep with you, she'll be trying to get you to sleep with her.
Get Quality Women! teaches you...
How to setup the environment or atmosphere of the date to give it a physical and sexual charge naturally.
2 need-to-know concepts that let a woman know you accept her sexuality, which makes her 100% comfortable getting physical with you.
The fundamental unspoken rules you need to play by if you want women to start busting moves on you.
I reveal to you all the necessary ingredients for a woman to ask you, "Do you want to come in?"
Step 6:
How To Get Women To Seduce You
In Under A Month Of Dating Them
After you've created attraction and generated high states of sexual tension by taking your interaction to a playfully physical level, women want to sleep with you.
All you have to do now is give them the opportunity.
Guys who take women out to dinner and a movie -- paying her way -- tend to have expectations when they drop a woman off. It's as if they expect her to invite him in just because he paid her way.
Though he may not be aware of it, he's trying to buy her love.
And she knows it.
It actually makes women feel cheap. Indirectly, he's treating her like a prostitute, though it's very subtle. But hey, she got a free evening on the town and maybe some free therapeutic advice...
... and she knows she doesn't owe him anything.
How does the night end for the guy? In frustration.
But if you've followed the other steps effectively during this stage, a woman will be eager to get you alone. Here, the roles have been reversed. Instead of you wanting to get her in bed -- though you probably still do -- she wants to sleep with you more...
... and she'll be the one pursuing you.
This places you in a position of power. Now, you decide whether or not the two of you sleep together. It's up to you.
Get Quality Women! teaches you...
The key principle for creating an interaction that sets the stage for uninhibited, passionate sex.
How to generate sexual suspense in women using another easy to understand principle -- which intensifies their desire for you.
I give you the mindset and understanding of what makes a lover a great lover. And it's not just what you do. It's more in noticing how women respond to you and then acting accordingly.
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- Stage 3 -
From The Bedroom
To A Short-Term Fling
Just because you've slept with a woman, if you don't know how to create a personal connection or how to keep a woman intrigued and centered, she won't stick around. And if you don't know how to determine a woman's compatibility level, you won't know whether she can give you a healthy relationship or not.
This marks a shift in the direction of the relationship. The first 6 steps focus on establishing a healthy sexual relationship, which is a foundation for a healthy relationship in the short-term -- and the long-term.
Then, the remaining 4 steps focus on opening up to a personal relationship -- only after the sexual relationship has been established.
This is essential. Why do many guys fail with women? They focus on getting personal first. This tends to get them locked into a friendship fast.
Only after you sleep with a woman should you allow things to get personal...
Step 7:
How To Establish A Personal Connection During The Following 2 Month Period
How do you connect with a woman? Or what does it mean to have a meaningful interpersonal relationship?
Does it mean that you know everything there is to know about each other? You know, you both know each other's life stories... you share 'everything'.
Ask your average guy, and he'll agree with this.
But the truth is, there is a huge difference between knowing about someone and knowing them. You can read someone's biography and you'll know what they've done... but do you know them?
No way. You only know 'of them'.
Developing a personal connection with women has little to do with knowing about them. It has everything to do with knowing how they respond to whatever life throws at them -- of course, this means how they respond to what you throw their way.
It's all about figuring out how they react to and in various situations.
A connection is not created by exchanging facts and information, though these things may be passed back and forth in the process -- but they're in the background only.
A connection is created by how both your relationships with life effect each other's. In other words, how both your perspectives on your own lives relate with each others.
Get Quality Women! teaches you...
What topics of conversation help create a strong emotional connection with women, and which ones lead to breaking rapport.
How to identify the 3 most influential traits that have shaped a woman's character so you can adapt your communication style to hers.
How to figure out what her life goals are without being too obvious so you know just how much she has in common with you.
A little known, but crucial secret to what's really responsible for a deep connection with a woman and how to apply it.
I give you the mindset and attitude to empower your approach to establishing a deep personal connection with women, along with guidelines on how to direct your conversations.
Step 8:
How To Use Positive Adventure To
Keep Her Interested And Intrigued
Have you ever noticed how when two people get together, they're really into each other at the beginning, but as soon as they start getting comfortable with each other, it's as if that spark fades out and dies.
And after that spark has vanished, their relationship becomes more of a formality than anything else.
Perhaps you'll even notice that they don't even really like each, but they stick together anyway.
Why is that?
They're so accustomed and desensitized to the fact that they're in an unhealthy relationship that they don't see it. It's become normal to them.
What do you see happening? They get on each other's nerves and cross each others boundaries -- and they say or do nothing. They just 'put up' with it and accept it... and silently fuel their anger towards each other.
Then make negative comments about each other to their frie
